Are you connecting the best you can with your child right now?
Do you wish the connection was better?
Over the weekend, I experienced the power of a stronger faster connection – not with my girls, it was with my internet speed and connection! When I reflected on this almost non-human connection, there were many analogies with human ways that contributed to boosting its power and strength.
I finally acknowledged there was a problem – the download was slow (child seems to not hear me and respond)
I tested the connection using speedtest.net. Sure enough a weak 2.1 mbps (no response, a grunt or a “whatever” making it more and more frustrating for me)
I asked for help (called on the specialists)
I communicated my trouble and how I wished it was and why (communicated as best I could even though I did not know all of the correct language)
Then I collaborated with the specialist in South Africa connecting, disconnecting and testing different modem ports, closing down windows, opening others, chatting with the specialist, connecting and testing (process of connecting with a child)
After about 2 hours of persistence and commitment to make this work by all parties, Bingo! We had a speed test connection of nearly 9 mbps! Wasn’t I celebrating! ( Will you be celebrating when you finally establish a strong connection with your child, after months of intermittent drop outs and loss of connection).
The signal is still strong. I am now mindful to address the connection issue early rather than pushing painfully through the walls, the slowness, the disconnect.
When your child feels seen, heard, loved and valued without judgment, a deep strong connection is formed.
Each child and his/her parent will connect differently.
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